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Question
I feel broken. I was seeing a girl for 6 months and I found out that she was cheating on me. I'm tired of people wrecking me like that, I just want to be loved. I just wanna be able to wake up without feeling insecure. I just wanna love someone. But every time I do, I get shattered.
Counselor response
Dealing with a break up is hard. It’s good that you are reaching out for help and support today. Do not be so hard on yourself. This person made the decision to step outside of the relationship. This is not your fault.
You will find the right person who treats you with the love and respect that you deserve. In the meantime focus on you and the things that you like to do. Hanging out with friends and family. Becoming involved with activities at school and in the community is a great way to meet new people and to learn more about yourself.
You have to learn to love yourself before others can. We have included some articles from our website about improving your self-esteem that you might find very helpful. We would encourage you to take a moment to read them over.
Take Care,
Amy